Obsess towards your boyfriend! come on lah girl!

assalamualaikum w.b.t

i was thinking to write about OBSESS.

there's a saying

it is true indeed -_- depend on the 'things' that makes you obsess. for me, there's two types of obsession. first, positive ways. second, in negative ways.

POSITIVE
For example:
1. An athlete obsessed with the game that he/she played until he/she practiced everyday just to improved his/her skill and do better than anyone else. He/she take it a lot more serious than a lot of people that play sports.*maaf ayat tak brapa nak cantik
2. Parents who always try to be their child's 'friend' by being close to them. they cannot stop thinking about their child if their child have problems.*ibu bapa being prihatin

NEGATIVE
For example:
1. Girlfriend who stalk her boyfriend (FB, IG and any other social media that he have) and willing to do everything for her loved one even though that things will give nothing in return for her. in short, girlfriend who really. really. reaaally in love with her LOYAL boyfriend. LOL loyal lah sangat. *saya pernah jumpa dengan pompuan macam nie. tak heranlah -_-
2. People who had obsession with 'something' that will give bad effects to them and encourage them to do anything to get that 'something'. such as, DRUGS, CAFFEINE or maybe GIRLS?*boys only hahaha


kat atas tu cuma mukadimah ja... :-D

ehem ehem,

back to the point, i want to write about Negative Obsession Example Number 1. yes, yang girlfriend-dia-terlalu-obsess-dengan-boyfriend-dia-tuh-sampai-dia-stalk-semua-media-sosial-yang-boyfriend-dia-ada. why does she had to stalk her boyfriend account if she is already her boyfriend's girlfriend? why? that is because she had an OBSESSION of her boyfriend. do you get it? she want to know everything that happen to her boyfriend. what he's doing. where he is. with who he's now. and etc.. without asking her boyfriend. she want to know it HERSELF. dia nak ambik tahu pasal bf dia sendiri. pendek kata, dia "spy" boyfriend dia.

i know this one girl ( no need to mention her name ) who is really obsess with her boyfriend sampai dia tau pukul berapa bf dia pegi kerja, pulang kerja. that's normal for couple but, she even mention jadual kerja bf dia tuh dekat blog dia ( i know this because i read her entry ). i mean, even if you NEED to remember your bf schedule sekali pun, i don't think you should 'use' his schedule as your entry. Yes! sebagai entry dia. i know how much you loved him, care for him and you try to show your love for him, but i think it should be only between you two. it's not like you both are public figure. nobody, i repeat, NOBODY care about your relationship. so, kalau boleh, letak lah privacy dalam hubungan korang tuh. i'm sorry to say this, but i think your boyfriend get sick of your obsession towards him. i can tell you guys that her social media accounts is all about her boyfriend. i mean, Oh God, please! post something else girl! every time i read your new entry, it's all about your boyfriend. please! that sucks -_-

hari tuh i talk about my friend yang post dekat IG dia and now i talk about this girl who obsess with her boyfriend. i was thinking, are you that desperate nak perhatian daripada your couple? come on girl, jadilah mahal sikit. when you post stuffs like that other people will give their judgement towards you, do you know that? orang akan fikir yang "perempuan zaman sekarang ni macam takda maruah. asyik-asyik nak bekepit ja dengan boyfriend". it's like kaum wanita zaman skang ni takut kalau-kalau dorang takda pasangan sampaikan dorang tak nak lepaskan couple yang dorang ada sekarang ni. halmaklumlah, zaman sekarang kan lebih ramai wanita daripada lelaki.

but now, as far as i know, they had broke up! yes, the end of all of her obsession, they broke up. and as far as i know, her boyfriend no longer loved her like before ( amboi~ kakjah tau nampak? uhukss ) it's all because of her obsession! honestly, as a girl, i know how hurt i would be if you broke up with your lovely dovey boyfriend after you had done everything for him before.

so, moral of the story, don't give too much love and care for someone UNTIL that special person become your wife or husband. simpan baik-baik hati tuh. kalau terluka pun, sikit ja. takda lah parah sampai berdarah-luka-bernanah! :-D see yah! (^_~)

last saying,

like the boyfriend i mention before. kesian.