Obsess towards your boyfriend! come on lah girl!

assalamualaikum w.b.t

i was thinking to write about OBSESS.

there's a saying

it is true indeed -_- depend on the 'things' that makes you obsess. for me, there's two types of obsession. first, positive ways. second, in negative ways.

POSITIVE
For example:
1. An athlete obsessed with the game that he/she played until he/she practiced everyday just to improved his/her skill and do better than anyone else. He/she take it a lot more serious than a lot of people that play sports.*maaf ayat tak brapa nak cantik
2. Parents who always try to be their child's 'friend' by being close to them. they cannot stop thinking about their child if their child have problems.*ibu bapa being prihatin

NEGATIVE
For example:
1. Girlfriend who stalk her boyfriend (FB, IG and any other social media that he have) and willing to do everything for her loved one even though that things will give nothing in return for her. in short, girlfriend who really. really. reaaally in love with her LOYAL boyfriend. LOL loyal lah sangat. *saya pernah jumpa dengan pompuan macam nie. tak heranlah -_-
2. People who had obsession with 'something' that will give bad effects to them and encourage them to do anything to get that 'something'. such as, DRUGS, CAFFEINE or maybe GIRLS?*boys only hahaha


kat atas tu cuma mukadimah ja... :-D

ehem ehem,

back to the point, i want to write about Negative Obsession Example Number 1. yes, yang girlfriend-dia-terlalu-obsess-dengan-boyfriend-dia-tuh-sampai-dia-stalk-semua-media-sosial-yang-boyfriend-dia-ada. why does she had to stalk her boyfriend account if she is already her boyfriend's girlfriend? why? that is because she had an OBSESSION of her boyfriend. do you get it? she want to know everything that happen to her boyfriend. what he's doing. where he is. with who he's now. and etc.. without asking her boyfriend. she want to know it HERSELF. dia nak ambik tahu pasal bf dia sendiri. pendek kata, dia "spy" boyfriend dia.

i know this one girl ( no need to mention her name ) who is really obsess with her boyfriend sampai dia tau pukul berapa bf dia pegi kerja, pulang kerja. that's normal for couple but, she even mention jadual kerja bf dia tuh dekat blog dia ( i know this because i read her entry ). i mean, even if you NEED to remember your bf schedule sekali pun, i don't think you should 'use' his schedule as your entry. Yes! sebagai entry dia. i know how much you loved him, care for him and you try to show your love for him, but i think it should be only between you two. it's not like you both are public figure. nobody, i repeat, NOBODY care about your relationship. so, kalau boleh, letak lah privacy dalam hubungan korang tuh. i'm sorry to say this, but i think your boyfriend get sick of your obsession towards him. i can tell you guys that her social media accounts is all about her boyfriend. i mean, Oh God, please! post something else girl! every time i read your new entry, it's all about your boyfriend. please! that sucks -_-

hari tuh i talk about my friend yang post dekat IG dia and now i talk about this girl who obsess with her boyfriend. i was thinking, are you that desperate nak perhatian daripada your couple? come on girl, jadilah mahal sikit. when you post stuffs like that other people will give their judgement towards you, do you know that? orang akan fikir yang "perempuan zaman sekarang ni macam takda maruah. asyik-asyik nak bekepit ja dengan boyfriend". it's like kaum wanita zaman skang ni takut kalau-kalau dorang takda pasangan sampaikan dorang tak nak lepaskan couple yang dorang ada sekarang ni. halmaklumlah, zaman sekarang kan lebih ramai wanita daripada lelaki.

but now, as far as i know, they had broke up! yes, the end of all of her obsession, they broke up. and as far as i know, her boyfriend no longer loved her like before ( amboi~ kakjah tau nampak? uhukss ) it's all because of her obsession! honestly, as a girl, i know how hurt i would be if you broke up with your lovely dovey boyfriend after you had done everything for him before.

so, moral of the story, don't give too much love and care for someone UNTIL that special person become your wife or husband. simpan baik-baik hati tuh. kalau terluka pun, sikit ja. takda lah parah sampai berdarah-luka-bernanah! :-D see yah! (^_~)

last saying,

like the boyfriend i mention before. kesian.

Please be Mature

assalamualaikum 

hari ni tetiba ingat nak buat entry pasal sorang kawan ni.

ada kena mengena ka dengan tajuk, Please be Mature? Jawapannya Yes! memang ada.

macam ni ceritanya, beberapa hari yang lalu, konon kononnya saya bukak la account Instagram dan masa scroll scroll down tu ternampak la satu gambar yang biasa tapi caption yang diletak tu agak luar biasa. Gambar tu gambar boyfriend dia. tapi caption punya lah panjang-nak-mampos-ala-ala-rumusan-karangan-bahasa-melayu-yang-kita-buat-masa-zaman-sekolah-dulu -.- penat juga lah membacanya ( tapi baca sampai habis jugak lah hee ) bukan apa, kita nak tahu juga kan apa isi hati dia sampai dia luah panjang panjang dekat IG tu. permasalahannya sekarang, ayat ayat yang dilontarkan tu hagak tidak menyenangkan mata dan hati para pembaca ( contohnya Saya sendiri ). ayat caption dia fullaaaamaakk, boleh dikatakan dia mengAGUNG AGUNG kan boyfriend dia tu. macam bf dia yang bagi dia nyawa dekat bumi ni. macam bf dia yang bagi dia makan dekat bumi ni. macam bf dia yang besarkan dia selama ni. macam bf dia yang berkorban pagi petang cari rezeki untuk dia selama ni. macam bf dia yang buat segala galanya untuk dia selama ni. macam macam lagi lah huh -.-' kita baca pun, OK FINE bf kau tuh baik, bf kau tuh hebat, bf kau tuh segala-galanya bagi kau. kita faham selama ni tapi sekarang ni dah over pulak rasanya. kalau kau sayang sangat kat dia biarlah kau dengan Tuhan ja yang tahu. tak payalah kau nak terhegeh hegeh nak bagitau satu dunia. bukan nak doakan lah tapi cuba kau fikir kalau satu hari nanti korang putus ( takda jodoh ) so, apa kau nak buat? setelah selama ni kau puja puja dia tapi tup tup, putus ditengah jalan. peribahasa melayu mengatakan, terlajak perahu boleh diundur, terlajak kata buruk padahnya ( hambek kau peribahasa ) buruk padahnya. apa maksud buruk padahnya? buruk lah padahnya bila kau cakap macam tuh sebab orang mesti fikir yang kau akan kekal dengan dia sampai korang kahwin nanti kan. tapi kalau putus, macam mana nak kahwin?. kita hidup ni kenalah fikirkan apa yang orang lain fikir jugak. not always but sometimes kita kenalah fikir macam tu. don't be selfish! jangan ingat apa yang kita fikir dan buat tu menyenangkan hati orang lain. kita kena tahu juga apa pendapat orang lain tentang perbuatan kita. ni tidak, dalam fikiran asyik cakap 'suka hati akulah' dan buat sesuka hati ja dalam setiap hal. dan hasilnya memakan diri sendiri juga.

lagi satu, kesian mak bapak kau. dorang yang jaga kau dari kecik sampai beso kau tak pernah pun nak mention pasal diorang kat mana mana laman sosial yang kau ada. hidup kau ni boleh dikatakan pasal boyfriend kau jer. orang lain bosan lah dengan cerita kau yang dah dianggap basi tuh. tak payah cakap orang lain lah. saya sebagai kawan pun rasa macam tuh. ni bukan luahan hati, tapi harap bila kau baca ni at least kau sedar juga lah yang kawan kau ni dah menyampah dengan sikap kau sekarang.

anyway, aku doakan supaya kau lebih MATANG dalam hal ni. takpayah nak kecoh satu dunia pasal boyfriend kau tuh. kau tuh bukannya budak sekolah lagi. orang kata, kalau kahwin dah ada anak 2 dah. lagi satu boyfriend kau tuh tak lah hensem sangat aku tengok. takda kot orang peduli kalau kau buat buku pasal dia pun. kau rileks je. kalau korang ada jodoh, kahwin juga tuh. tapi kalau takda aku senyum je ( ayat mantap ).

 kalau satu hari nanti kau stalk aku, mesti kau akan baca entry ni :) jadi, kau fikir fikirkan lah apa yang dah ditulis kat atas tuh k. and kepada readers, saya harap korang tak buat benda yang macam budak budak ni. Tidak Matang. ok bye!

KAWAN or LAWAN

assalamualaikum <3 

Atau nama lainnya, KAWAN OR LAWAN ^_^

 Hai semua ;) hari ni rasa macam nak update belog pasal kawan or lawan. beberapa hari ni saya rasa macam lain jer ( hah, tak tau lah apa yang lain nye tu ) semalam saya update pasal result STPM kan, so hari ni nak cite sikit pasal kawan. Masa dekat sekolah kita semua happy sebab dapat jumpa dengan kengkawan kan. Dapat belajar, makan, borak dan tak kurang jugak gosip hiburan semasa bersama, kan. So rasa macam free ja, happy ja kalau dengan diorang. Tapi bila dah bab EXAM ni, macam macam hal dan perasan yang datang/ jadi. Kalau kawan A dapat result lebih baik daripada kawan B ni, mesti kawan B tak puas hati dengan si A tadi kan. Pastu mula lah citer yang tak elok keluar dari mulut kawan B ni. Kawan A tu meniru lah, dapat soalan bocor tapi tak nak share2 dengan kawan yang lain lah and macam macam lagi lah versi citernye. Kawan B ni citer dekat kawan kawan yang lain. Kesian si A kan. Dia dah usaha tapi kawan dia buat gosip pula pasal dia dekat kawan kawan yang lain tu. Sepatutnya, sebagai kawan, si B ni ucaplah tahniah dan bangga juga lah dia ada kawan yang pandai kan. Bukannya nak cakap buruk buruk pasal si A tu. Tak patut lah. Orang kata TERSERLAH KETIDAKMATANGAN mu di situ :) Kalau dah kes macam ni, kita patut tak kata si B ni kawan? or lawan si A? Dalam kes ni macam LAWAN kan. Hal hal macam ni memang selalu terjadi. Tak heran lah kan. Tapi kalau hal ni berleluasa, maka wujudlah golongan golongan yang... pandai pandai lah korang fikir ye. So, hopefully kawan kawan saya takda yang macam si B ni. Hipokrit! 

Jadi, kalau nak jadi sahabat sejati kita kenalah sentiasa doa doa kan yang baik untuk kawan kita. Susah senang ditanggung bersama. Jangan bila kawan lakukan satu kesilapan kita lupa tentang seribu kebaikannya pada kita. Dan jangan bila kawan kita happy pasal dapat sesuatu yang baik kita nak jeles dan cakap buruk buruk pasal dia. Terima dia seadanya. Walaupun dalam diri setiap manusia tu ada ja yang kita tak suka tapi terimalah dia seadanya. Itu mungkin kekurangan yang ada padanya, tapi kelebihan dirinya lah yang membuatkan kita nak kawan dengan dia kan. So, jangan jadi kawan yang jahat. Tu bukan kawan namanya, ok!. 

Back stab is sooo much more painful than stabbing in the front HAHA :')

Dan satu perkara yang membuatkan persahabatan tu tahan lama/kekal ialah SETIA. Jangan ingat kapel/suami isteri ja yang patut guna istilah ni, sahabat pun guna tau :) Setia bersama dalam suka mahupun duka. Jangan sesekali berkawan atas dasar pentingkan diri! JANGAN! Allah Maha Adil. Kalau kita bodoh bodoh kan seseorang tu and cuma cari dia masa kita perlukan sesuatu, pasti kita akan terima balasan nanti kan. Mungkin bukan dalam hubungan persahabatan tu, tapi dalam lain lain hal. Hidup ni ibarat roda, kadang kita berada di atas, kadang kita di bawah. Mungkin sekarang kita di atas, tapi siapa tahu kita mungkin berada di bawah esok dan waktu kita berada di bawah tu lah kita boleh nampak siapa kawan dan siapa lawan. Even bila berada di puncak pun kita boleh tau siapa kawan or lawan, apalagi bila jatuh kan :) Renung renungkan dan selamat beramah ( style profeser Izzy haji Ali ahah :D ) 

p/s:: mood kite serius hari ni -_-

STPM Result!

assalamualaikum <3

hey guys! sorry i haven't update this belog. :) been busy with works. oh oh sikit lupa, happy February (^_^)

Ok straight to the point. ( mood serius ala ala doktor nak cucuk jarum kat tgn kite ) Yesterday ( 10th February ) we, STPM candidates got the result for semester 3. as usual yeahh i got sooo nervous. this wasn't the first time i'd been nervous for getting my result but its just ( hmmm i got no words to describe my feelings -_- HAHA.) to be honest, i am happy because i didn't expected i will get a good result ( based on my effort on it ). i'm not show off but that's the reality. the past semester, i'll make sure to target what grade i WANT to get for each subject. but not this semester. i didn't even struggled until late night. i do what i want; sleep, watch tv, online etc. i just didn't feel like study anymore because it was the final semester. but i did some revision everyday. sometimes i feel like no spirit to study. maybe i was just to tired to study ( stpm susah beb, serius! ).

Another story, there's someone on facebook post a status about STPM and i agree about what she said. "... Hanya pelajar STPM sahaja yang tahu macam mana susahnya exam STPM nih. Bagi pelajar u yang lain, dapat 3 pointer tu senang je tapi bagi kami pelajar STPM dapat 3 pointer tu kami kena belajar bagai nak rak. Pa lagi nak dapat 4 flat kan. Senang je korang cakap kan. Cuba korang masuk pra u untuk satu bulan, tahan ke dak?..." She post some kind like this la. yes, it is true indeed. what i'm trying to say here is that, i found that not everyone can understand the hardship of what we'd been through. i mean, if we got bad result for example, some people will just JUMP to the conclusion and say that we didn't do enough revision and whatsoever! but they didn't know how hard we had tried to get a better and awesome result. it's just make me disappointed :-/ i just hope they will be more understanding. not everything easy to achieve without hard work. yeah i know that but we ( people ) got different ability to achieve something. it depend on ourselves. and i admit, i am not that good and smart to get 4 flat ( kecewa )

I just write what i got in my mind now. this got nothing to do for others. last saying, STPM susah beb. kalau ko ada chance nak sambung study kat u lain baik ko pegi sana dpd ko duduk memerah otak study tuk jawab exam stpm. i say this based on my experience lah. k, bye.